I’ve always known - I had to know by the time I was 17 years old - what you were describing is not me. … More than any other country in the world, we have invented the nigger. James Baldwin once explained to an interviewer why he, a Black man, isn’t a “nigger,” and why, in fact, white Americans are the real “niggers.” According to Baldwin, “What you say about somebody else, anybody else, reveals you. It’s a child’s sense of freedom - something that someone with no sense of history would want to say because it makes them feel some kind of way. It’s what makes it so adolescent to want to say or post as well. And this exclusivity makes “nigger” even more valuable.
It’s also considered a word that is now owned by Black people, so when someone who isn’t Black says it, they do so knowing it isn’t a word that’s theirs to use. And in America, expensive means valuable. Which also makes it the most expensive word to say. The point is, there are now social costs to saying or posting the word. Of course, no one is stopping anyone from saying or posting “nigger.” Instead, saying the word has consequences, like losing your job, your relationship or the respect of those who know you. Probably around the same time people first learned they couldn’t say “nigger” in public spaces and forums anymore.
