However, that sexual drive was awaked when he met and fell for a plus-sized man and became aware of the bear community. Honestly, I thought it was something everyone around me was making up.’ I didn’t have the typical emotional or sexual drive that other guys seemed to have. ‘I had spent my high school years focused on wrestling, my studies and friends. He entered a seminary to train to be a priest, and didn’t go on his first date until he was 22. That and his own struggles with his sexuality cast a dark shadow over his romantic life. He learned at a young age that relationships can be painful and damaging, after his parents divorced while he was in 4th grade. Struggles with his sexuality and love of big men I wanted to be direct, honest and graphic to really convey the shape, the allure, the seduction of big men.’ ‘For this one, I wanted to write something that was more specific and mature. ‘I used to get annoyed by the question, but then I started to reflect on it and I came to the conclusion that I hadn’t done an adequate job of describing what is so intoxicating to me about men of size.
‘Even after ‘Bears’, people would constantly ask me if I really had a thing for large men,’ Tom Goss said in a press statement. Five years after he released his track, Bears, he’s revealed a video today for new song, Round In All The Rights Places. Out gay singer Tom Goss is reasserting his love of big men.
